For those of you who don't know me one of my favorite quotes is "ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS". Now most people have heard this at some point in their lives, and even if you haven't it's not that hard to figure out what it means. Basically you should SAY WHAT YOU MEAN AND MEAN WHAT YOU SAY. Now I understand that sometimes things happen that prevent you from sticking to your word, but this shouldn't be a constant occurrence. Nothing pisses me off more than when someone tells me they're going to do something over and over again, and then they never do it. Eventually people stop believing in you! I would rather someone just do something (preferably without being asked first) and not tell me than to tell me and not do it. Like I said, sometimes things come up unexpectedly. This can be solved by simply letting the person know the situation AS SOON AS YOU KNOW YOU WON'T BE ABLE TO DO WHAT YOU SAID....not 2 or 3 hours later when the person is waiting for you. No need to beat around the bush either. You wouldn't want to be the one waiting for that long, so why make others?! And for those who keep feeding their woman/man lies about changing and bettering themselves, only when your woman/man is threatening to leave or creep, then go back to doing the same thing less than 2 weeks later...THAT'S A BUNCH OF B.S. MAN UP OR MOVE ON!! Because when it's all said and done and they finally get fed up, YOU'RE GONNA BE SORRY. Don't be stupid! You know, whether you want to admit it or not, if the person you love is truly capable of changing for the better. It's up to you to accept them as they are, or leave them alone....BE TRUE TO YOURSELF, CUZ THAT'S ALL YOU HAVE IN THE END.
Heart2Heart
