So I recently had some random woman approach me and tell me that she was seeing this married man (true story). She went on to say she gets really jeaous when he doesn't reply to her text or contact her everyday. She also said she doesn't believe she was the only one he was stepping outside of his marriage with, and asked me what she should do. Honestly, at the time all I could tell her was that she needs to move on. Afterwards, i regret not letting her know the "real". As to not seem judgemental, I held back my initial thoughts that she was putting herself in a situation that made her look foolish, desperate, and like she has little self-worth and a lack of self-confidence. That is what it boils down to though. We must put ourselves in a position that displays how valuable and worthy we are to have someone who is ours (and only ours) and who loves, values, and cherishes us for exactly who we are and what we have to offer. Vice versa, we should treat the person we have with the same respect. We must be an example for our sons and daughters on how to be treated/loved and how to treat/love others. We all make mistakes and have been in undesirable positions, but don't let those situations carry on when you know they are wrong. That speaks volumes about your character. Like the old adage goes, "If you knew better, you'd do better". So know your worth, and don't accept anyone who gives you less.
Heart2Heart
