Romance the Stone

So it's almost that time! The one day of the year, besides their anniversary, that women feel they deserve some form of romance (even aside from their birthday)....VALENTINE'S DAY As I've mentioned before, it seems as though these days romance is out the window. People, especially men, feel as though their too busy, too tired, or too broke to even make an effort. They expect women to understand these circumstances, except them, and move on. Well fellas that's NOT HOW IT WORKS. Most men work their asses off during the process of GETTING a woman, (opening doors, constantly calling, taking her out, basically doing anything to impress her) but they fail to realize that you have to work twice as hard to KEEP a woman and have a GOOD relationship. Just because you have been together for over three years does not mean you stop catering to your woman. Keeping the romantic aspect of a relationship up to par is sometimes what keeps couples together. Valentine's Day is the perfect opportunity to show your girl how much love you have for her. Don't get it twisted you don't have to spend a dime to give your woman a memorable evening...just PUT IN A LITTLE EFFORT (about as much as you put into playing video games). A candle light dinner, a picnic under the stars, or a walk in the park are all romantic and affordable. For those who feel like money is no issue, sending flowers, preferably roses, to the school or workplace is a sure way to get a BIG reward by the end of the night.
Now Ladies in this day and age it's not just the guys who shoud put in the effort. With all the stress he is under and the pressure he goes through, your man deserves just as much as he gives. Try planning a romantic evening for you and your man, and BE CREATIVE. Cater to him, give him a massage or whatever you think would make him happy. Just doing the simple things can make all the difference. So don't look at Valentine's as just another day...MAKE THE MOST OF IT! Use it as an opportunity to be with the one you love and try new things. Be spontaneous! I promise you if you put in the time, you'll get every bit of it back...with a little interest;)

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What's Really Good?

So I know I'm supposed to be giving the fellas some insight into the world of women, but some events in my own personal life have raised some questions that I have yet to figure out the answer to, which is very rare for me.

• Why do guys feel it is okay for them to do certain things, but when their woman does it they go bolistic? For example, some guys think it's all good to have close female friends while they are in a seriuos relationship. They even engage in some harmless flirting with their "friends", talk on the phone with them, and sometimes go out with them. This is all good, but I MEAN LET'S GET REAL! If your woman were in the same scenario how would you feel? No man alive can convince me that they would not be a little jealous, or maybe just suspicious (just like a woman would feel in that situation). It's pretty obvious that if you can't take it, then don't dish it out.
• What's up with the GUYS NIGHT OUT THING? Seriously, you would really rather spend hours playing video games and drinking with a dude, than doing ANYTHING, possibly EVERTHING;), with your girl. I get some guys may need breaks from their girl every now and then, but for those that have a little too much "guy time", especially when other men are just waiting to pick up your slack and your girl, your sexual interests may be questionable.

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