What's Really Good?

So I know I'm supposed to be giving the fellas some insight into the world of women, but some events in my own personal life have raised some questions that I have yet to figure out the answer to, which is very rare for me.

• Why do guys feel it is okay for them to do certain things, but when their woman does it they go bolistic? For example, some guys think it's all good to have close female friends while they are in a seriuos relationship. They even engage in some harmless flirting with their "friends", talk on the phone with them, and sometimes go out with them. This is all good, but I MEAN LET'S GET REAL! If your woman were in the same scenario how would you feel? No man alive can convince me that they would not be a little jealous, or maybe just suspicious (just like a woman would feel in that situation). It's pretty obvious that if you can't take it, then don't dish it out.
• What's up with the GUYS NIGHT OUT THING? Seriously, you would really rather spend hours playing video games and drinking with a dude, than doing ANYTHING, possibly EVERTHING;), with your girl. I get some guys may need breaks from their girl every now and then, but for those that have a little too much "guy time", especially when other men are just waiting to pick up your slack and your girl, your sexual interests may be questionable.

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