Situationships

So the new term when it comes to love and relationships is situationship. Urban Dictionary ultimately defines this word as "A relationship that has no label on it.. like a friendship but more than a friendship but not quite a relationship."  This term, like its definition, seems to be a combination of confusion, denial, and just plain stupidity. Since when does any type of relationship deserve anything less than 100% loyalty, trust, honesty and commitment? If the parties involved can't agree to these circumstances, at least, then why have any type of relationship at all? It's true that labeling a relationship can sometimes be nerve-wrecking. I myself have questioned: "Am I ready?" "Is he ready?" "What will people think/say?" But at the end of the day if you can't publicly claim someone as either someone you are dating, your boyfriend/girlfriend, your wife/husband or whatever you are, then why waste their time or yours? I'm not saying you have to put all of your business out there, but be real with yourself and, most importantly, be honest and upfront with the other person.

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