Look at me Now

So, it's a must that I address the misconception that good looking people make good boyfriends or girlfriends. There are times when I’ve told a guy I am single, and his reply is, “You look too good to be single”. I think to myself, “What does that have to do with anything?” The best looking people in the world still have insecurities, crazy habits, emotional issues, and countless other barriers that may cause a relationship with them to fail. You never know the extent of someone's situation just by looking at them. Many people say that the fine women are the crazy ones. I don’t know if I would take it that far, but I would suggest getting to know someone for who they are and not how they look because looks aren’t everything. It basically comes down to the age-old saying, Don’t judge a book by its cover.

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Side Chick

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Too Little Too Late

Post by Kira Brandon.

Post by Kira Brandon.

Make It or Break It?

Getting back on the dating scene can be rough, especially if you've been off of the market for a while. We all know that no one you date is going to be perfect and have EVERYTHING you are looking for. I mean let's be real, it's hard to find that knight in shining armor these days. Since no one is perfect, how do you know where to draw the line? Do we settle as long as the person has/does the most important things? Is a man with a minimum wage job, a hooptie, and bad sex a complete turn off. I am not the type to settle, but I do believe in giving people chances to prove themselves. Everyone isn't where they want to be in life, and I (more than anyone) can understand that. I am willing to work with a guy as long as he is working on himself (a.k.a not content with his hooptie). Just keep in mind what you are getting yourself into. If you choose someone who isn't already established (based off of other appealing qualities), make sure you can be supportive rather than pointing out their shortcomings. Be their Wonder Woman and elevate them. If you have a good man, you both will benefit from this in the end. And don't let bad sex run you away; sex, like sports, may require practice, but with a good coach you can create an MVP.

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